Alex's Answer

Everyone hates me

Your Question

What do I do when I fail everyone in life and everyone hates you 


Hi there and thank you for contacting Ask Alex , 

Firstly can we say how brave you are for reaching out to Ask Alex. It sounds like you are having a really difficult time at the moment. You talk about what to do when you fail everyone in life and you feel everyone hates you. 

We wonder why you are feeling like this? Has something happened to make you feel this way? Sometimes in life we can struggle with our self esteem and how we feel about ourselves. This can impact our relationships with others as you described in your question. Here is an article that can explain a little more about self esteem and how to deal with it when we are feeling low  

Do you have a trusted adult like a parent/ guardian, another family member, or teacher that you could talk about how you are feeling? Sharing how you feel with an important person can be the beginning of us moving forward positively. 

If you would like to talk more about how you are feeling, and you don’t know who to go to, know Childline is here for you. We will listen and support you whenever you need us. You can call us at 1800 66 66 66 or via Live Chat on our website Our team is there 24/7, 365 days a year. You never have to feel alone, there is always somebody here to chat with you.

Take care of yourself, and remember, you have the right to get medical or professional help when you need it. Reach out again real soon,


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