Alex's Answer

Hi there, welcome to Ask Alex,

Thank you for reaching out with such a difficult and sensitive question. It is braze of you opening up about these feelings, well done! We want you to know that you’re in a safe and supportive space here.

Feeling drawn towards something as traumatic as rape can be incredibly confusing and distressing, especially when it goes against normal behaviours and personal values. It’s important to recognise that these feelings don’t define you as a person. They are thoughts and emotions that may stem from a variety of factors, including past experiences, social influences, or even mental health challenges.

You are not alone in struggling with these emotions. Many people face similar struggles, and it’s important to prioritise your well-being and look for support. Childline is a confidential resource available to you 24/7. You can reach the Team at 1800 66 66 66 or through Live Chat at www.Childline.ie. There are trained facilitators who can provide you with a safe and non-judgmental space to talk about your feelings and explore healthier coping mechanisms.

We want to reassure you that seeking help is a brave and important step towards healing and finding peace within yourself. You deserve support and care, and there are people who genuinely want to help you through this difficult time. Please know that you are not defined by these feelings, and with support, you can work through them and find healthier ways to cope.

If you ever feel overwhelmed or need someone to talk to, please don’t hesitate to reach out. You are not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to support you through this journey. We are just a phone call or webchat away.

Look after yourself,

Alex