Pat's Answer

Today while uptown with my friends, one of them showed me a video of one of the guys is my year showing his bare butt. I don’t know what to do, I am worried that he will regret what he posted up. It has already been shared 15 times, meaning that is has already been spread and will be hard to completely get rid of. The fact that I was told by a friend isn’t a good sign, it probably means that everyone in my year will see it at some point. I’m worried that he will regret it and feel humiliated or that he will be targeted online. I know you will probably tell to to tell my school, but they do nothing, nothing at all, especially on these kinds of matters. I don’t want him to be sexually harassed or bullied. My school allowed me to be threatened to be raped and then blamed me for “ruining his reputation” when I told him to leave me alone. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know whether I should speak to him about it because I don’t want to come across as weird or creepy, but I think that I should do it anyway. Should I try convince him to take the video down? Or does he have the right to make these kinds of decisions? I just don’t want anybody to get hurt, please help.