Alex's Answer

Hi there, thanks for getting in touch with Ask Alex.

First and foremost, I want to extend a warm welcome to you. It takes a lot of courage to reach out, and we’re really glad you did. Please know that you’re not alone in what you’re going through, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed by it all.

Dealing with self-harm (sh) and bullying is incredibly tough, and it’s understandable that you’re finding it challenging. Remember, these struggles don’t define you, and there are people who care deeply about your well-being. It’s important to prioritise your mental and emotional health, and reaching out for support is a brave and positive step forward.

As someone who cares deeply about your well-being, we want you to know that you deserve to feel safe and supported. No one should ever have to endure bullying or resort to self-harm as a means of coping. There are people and resources available to help you get through this difficult time. Whether it’s talking to a trusted adult, reaching out to a counsellor or therapist, or contacting helplines like Jigsaw.ie and Pieta.ie there is support out there for you. You may find these articles helpful www.childline.ie/what-to-do-if-someone-bullies-you-at-school/ and www.childline.ie/thinking-about-self-harming/.

Please remember, you are valued, you are important, and you are worthy of love and support. You don’t have to face these challenges alone. Take things one step at a time, and know that brighter days are ahead. If you ever need someone to talk to, Childline is here for you. You can always contact us at freephone 1800 66 66 66 or access Live Chat at www.childline.ie. We’re confidential, non-judgmental, and available 24/7, ready to listen and support you through any reason, any time.

Take care of yourself, and know that you are never alone. Reach out to someone you trust real soon,

Alex