I feel I'm a burden to my parents
Hi Alex, I’m a Neurodivergent person and I feel like a burden to my parents. I try to communicate with my parents and have tried to have a mother daughter relationship with my mum but we always seem to come to a point where we just argue. Tonight when I was trying to explain to my dad why I thought my ADHD medication wasn’t being administered in full he got frustrated and started yelling at me which caused me to cry and him to scream. I don’t deal with yelling and scremaing well due to past trauma and overstimulation, so I broke down. Normally he consoles me however he looked me in the eyes and told me to go away, which made me feel on the outside and shut out. My mum came to me and at first i thought she was going to comfort me but she told me that it was all my fault and I want to know if it was really all my fault and if i am really a burden to my parents? Thank you for taking time to read my question, it means a lot.
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