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I don't want to depend on others

Your Question

i tired of searching jop so dont wanna to depend on others i want to suicide 


Hi, you are very welcome to Ask Pat.  

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us.  

You are telling us that you are tired of searching for a job, and you want to get a job because you do not want to have to depend on others around you. You are feeling suicidal and want to kill yourself. 

We are sorry to hear you are feeling suicidal. It sounds like you have a lot going on in your thoughts and feelings. You are so brave in telling us how you are feeling.  

We are concerned to hear you want to commit suicide. You have the right to live your life and be alive and you have the right to feel happy and not to be hurt. You have the right to seek help and support and to talk about your thoughts and feelings. Have you spoken to your family or friends about what is going on for you? Do you have an adult in your life you feel you can trust or would feel comfortable talking to about wanting to be independent? Your family has a responsibility to look after you and to care for you, up to the age of 18. You also have the right to seek advice from professionals who can help you, like your doctor or a counsellor. You have the right to be listened to and to be heard. 

There are organisations that could be of help to you such as: : :  You might like to look at these websites as they  may help you understand what is going on for you or they can offer you a direction in how to avail of other supports. The Childline website has some articles too which you may like to look at on;

The Childline Team is here to listen to you. It is important for your mental well-being that you get the help and support you deserve. You are welcome to talk to the Team by phone on 1800 66 66 66 or text on 50101 or through web chat on Childline is open 24-hours a day, every day. The services are free and confidential. Childline is here for you whenever you would like to talk or chat, and we really would love to hear from you soon. We can help you explore what options may be available to you.

You do not have to be alone at this or any time, Childline is here for you.

Take care of yourself,


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