Alex's Answer

Hello,  

 

Thanks for getting in touch with us here at Ask Alex with your question. You mention wanting Michael but not being sure if he feels the same way about you, and wondering what to do.  

 

Since we’re not familiar with your relationship with Michael, we may not be able to fully offer suggestions on what you could do. When you say he doesn’t want you, what makes you think that? Is it something he has said or something you think/feel? If your perception is based on your thoughts, perhaps you could try to have a conversation with him to see how he’s feeling too. We strongly advise doing this only in a safe environment.  

 

We know it can be frustrating when someone doesn’t reciprocate our feelings, but it is important we respect other people’s feelings too, just as we would like for ours to be heard and respected.  You may find this article helpful www.childline.ie/how-to-build-healthy-friendships-and-relationships/, and you can find lots more here www.childline.ie/friends/.

 

Do you have someone in your life you trust and feel safe talking to? Remember, looking for support and sharing your feelings with someone you trust is your right and can be helpful. If you find yourself struggling to cope, don’t hesitate to reach out to a counsellor or therapist who can provide additional support.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us here at Childline and maybe share some more about what’s going on for you, we are here 24/7. You can contact us by Live Chat through Childline.ie by freephone at 1800 66 66 66. 

 

Take care of yourself, and know you do not have to go through anything alone. We are always here for you,

Alex