Alex's Answer

Hey there! Thanks for getting in touch with us.

 

It sounds like you’re going through some complex feelings about your friend, and that’s totally ok. Having feelings for someone can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, especially when you’re unsure how to approach the situation. First off, it’s important to acknowledge and honour your emotions. It’s completely natural to develop feelings for someone you care about, regardless of their physical appearance.

 

When it comes to getting closer to your friend, communication is key. Consider expressing your feelings in a respectful and honest way. You could start by having open and genuine conversations with her, finding common interests to bond over, or simply spending quality time together. Remember, building a strong friendship is the foundation for any meaningful relationship. You may find this article helpful www.childline.ie/how-to-build-healthy-friendships-and-relationships/.

 

However, it’s essential to respect your friend’s boundaries and comfort levels. Take things slow and be mindful of her feelings. If she doesn’t share the same romantic interest, it’s important to accept her decision gracefully and continue to prioritise your friendship.

 

Lastly, don’t hesitate to ask for support if you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about how to proceed. Talking to a trusted adult, counsellor, or Childline can provide you with guidance and reassurance as you try to understand your emotions and relationships.

 

Remember, you’re not alone, and it’s ok to look for help when you need it. You can always reach out to Childline at freephone 1800 66 66 66 or through Messenger at www.childline.ie, (click on the purple chat circle and begin to chat). We’re here for you, no matter what, and we’ll support you every step of the way.

 

Look after yourself, and remember we are just a call or chat away should you need us,

Alex