Alex's Answer
Feeling very troubled right now
Your Question
Hi, Alex. I feel very troubled right now. I just had a little argument with my mam and it started because she brought up my hygiene issues. I struggle with showering a lot and I struggle to get into the shower on time and such. I do shower once a week but I sweat a lot since I do dancing and exercise. She told me that I need to get into the shower but she said it in a joking manner. My parents constantly make fun of me for my lack of showering and I dont know why and I just got frustrated and snapped at her a little. I told her ” Do my feelings not matter? ” and she told me to calm down and that she was just messing but they joke about my hygeine a lot. I ended up swearing at her and she got very angry at me and now we aren’t talking. I’m wondering what i’ve done wrong. Do my feelings really not matter on the situation? Are they right when making fun of me? Was I wrong for getting angry at her? I’m so confused and I can’t understand why I’m like this with my hygiene and why I can’t shower normally like everyone else. Should I really just suck it up and take the jokes? Nobody has offered help for my hygiene issues so I don’t know what to do other than suck it up.