Alex's Answer

Hey there, welcome to Ask Alex!

It’s great that you reached out with this question. Figuring out if someone likes you can definitely be confusing, especially when you’re a teenager. First off, it’s important to remember that everyone expresses their feelings differently, so there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. But there are some signs to look out for.

Pay attention to her body language when she’s around you. Does she smile a lot, make eye contact? These can be signs that she’s interested. Also, notice if she goes out of her way to spend time with you or starts conversations with you frequently. These are positive signs that she enjoys your company.

However, it’s also possible that she might be shy or unsure how to show her feelings. In that case, she might not exhibit obvious signs of liking you, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t interested. Sometimes, it’s worth taking a bit of initiative and expressing your feelings to see how she responds. Just be respectful of her boundaries and be prepared for any outcome.

Remember, the most important thing is to communicate openly and honestly. If you’re unsure, it’s ok to ask her directly how she feels. And if things don’t turn out the way you hoped, that’s ok too. It’s all part of growing up and learning about relationships. Here is an article about building healthy relationships www.childline.ie/how-to-build-healthy-friendships-and-relationships/.

If you ever need someone to talk to about this or anything else on your mind, don’t hesitate to reach out to Childline. We’re here to listen, support, and look at your options, no matter what you’re going through. You can always contact us at freephone 1800 66 66 66 or via Messenger at www.childline.ie (just click on the purple messenger circle). We’re confidential, non-judgmental, and available 24/7. You’re not alone, and we’re here for you anytime you need us.