Summary
Being bullied is awful, but it’s also a horrible feeling when we see someone else being bullied and want to help them. Of course we might worry that the bullies might target us, or just not really know what to say or do. Here are a few tips to help you know what to do if your friend or someone in your class is being bullied.
It’s never a nice feeling when you see a friend or classmate being bullied. However, it’s important to take a stand when you see it happening.
Have you ever been in a position where someone is being bullied but you’re worried that you’ll become a target if you say something to a teacher or adult?
This is a natural reaction and not one you should feel guilty about. Often times when children see a bullying incident they feel powerless and this inaction can lead to feelings of guilt or even a loss of self-respect.
So, not only is the person who is being bullied suffering by that very act, but people who see it happen and don’t do anything can be affected badly as well.
Speak up
The first thing to do is tell a trusted adult, like a teacher or parent, but if you don’t feel able to do that alone, tell another friend what’s happening.
Together you can report the bullying and by doing this, you are placing the situation in the hands of responsible adults who will listen to your concerns and respond in a positive and proactive way.
Be there for your friend
Bullying behaviour is not acceptable and just because it might not be happening to you, does not mean you should ignore it. If nothing else, speak to the person being bullied so they know that they’re not alone.
This will mean a lot to them and give them hope that the bullying will end soon.
If you want to read more about this, check out Bullying and the role of the Bystander
Key takeaways
- It’s very natural to feel nervous about taking on bullies, and to not want to be their target.
- If you see someone being bullied and don’t do anything, it can cause you to feel bad too even though you haven’t done anything wrong.
- Speaking up can start to change things, even to a trusted adult or another friend if you do not want to confront the bullies.
- If none of this is an option, you can at least talk to the person being bullied so that they feel less alone.
- We’re always here to help, 24/7, if you’re struggling with seeing someone be bullied.
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