The most important thing to remember is that it is never your fault. The first time it happens, you may not even realise that you are experiencing sexual abuse.
It’s also common for the adult or older teen to try to make you feel ashamed of what has happened so that you will keep it a secret and not be tempted to tell anyone.
They might also suggest that no one will believe you or that you’ll be sorry if you tell anyone.
Even though it is scary, don’t fall into this trap. This is what the abuser wants so that they can continue to do as they please and maybe even do it to someone else.
The only way to stop the abuse is to report it.