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What did I do wrong that made everyone hate me?

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what did i do wrong to make every one hate me 

Answer

Hi there, you are very welcome to Ask Alex.   

Thank you for contacting us. We understand that it’s not always easy to share how we’re feeling, or what’s going on for us, but we also know how important it is to talk about it. 

It sounds like right now that you feel like you don’t fit in and that the people around you don’t like you. We are sorry to hear this, it must be difficult and lonely feeling this way. 

As we aren’t fully sure of your situation and how you came to feel this way, we recommend that you chat to a trusted adult in your life about this and how it is making you feel. It can be a teacher or family member or someone that you have chatted to in the past when something was bothering you. 

Remember that we are all unique, important and special in our own way. That’s okay, because it would be a very boring world if we were all the same! You might find these articles on friendships on the Childline website helpful: https://www.childline.ie/how-to-build-healthy-friendships-and-relationships/, https://www.childline.ie/do-you-struggle-to-make-friends-here-are-a-few-things-that-might-help/ and https://www.childline.ie/how-to-know-when-youre-in-a-toxic-friendship-group/. 

Childline is always here to listen to you and we would be more than happy to chat with you some more about this and what life is like for you. If you ever feel like chatting to us, you are very welcome to call anytime on 1800 66 66 66 or you can contact us online by visiting www.childline.ie. All of our services are free, available 24 hours a day and are confidential and non-judgmental.  It’s a completely safe space for you to talk openly about what’s going on for you.  

Hopefully this reply will be helpful to you and please know you’re welcome to contact us again if you need to talk.  

Take care,  

Alex. 

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