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My parents are horrible to me
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so, my parents since i turned 16 and could work a job have pretty much been horible to me they bully me call me horrible names make me want to legit die. I think to myself when will it ever stop and it doesnt it just progressively gets worse and worse the older i got.. I am now 18 and this morning my dad threatened to tare me out of his house by my head along with my clothes if i didnt get up, my mother just kept coming in and out of my room screaming horrible abuse at me. I try to speak to them but they never let me get a word out because im apparently not good enough. how do i get help for this or stop this please someone help me?
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Welcome to Ask Alex, thank you for getting in touch.
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We’re really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a difficult and painful situation. It must be distressing to be going through this kind of behaviour from your parents, who are supposed to be supportive. Please know that you’re not alone, and there are people and organisations that want to help you.
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It’s important to remember that everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and respect. Life can be very difficult when there is tension at home, a place where you should be feeling safe. It’s a brave step to reach out for help.Â
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We are wondering if you are still at school and your parents are looking for you to get a part-time job, or whether you are finished school? Have you considered looking for employment as part of your plan for the future? Having a job can provide you with financial independence and a sense of empowerment, which can be beneficial in achieving a more stable life. You may find the following website helpful if you don’t know where to start looking for work www.citizensinformation.ie/en/employment/starting-work-and-changing-job/training-and-looking-for-work/finding-and-getting-a-job/
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Remember, you don’t have to go through this alone. The Childline Team is waiting for you to get in touch whenever you’re ready. Childline provides a safe and confidential space to talk about your feelings and experiences. You can contact us 24/7 at phone 1800 66 66 66 or through Live Chat on our website at www.Childline.ie. We are here to support you, help you explore your options, and provide guidance during this challenging time.Â
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Stay strong, and know that there are people who care about your well-being and are ready to help you through this difficult situation.
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Warm regards, we hope to hear from you soon.
Ale
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