Alex's Answer

Hi there,

 

Thank you for reaching out to Ask Alex. It’s completely understandable that you’re feeling concerned and confused about this situation. First, we want to say that it’s really brave of you to share your feelings and ask for advice. 

 

It sounds like your mum is worried about you and wants to make sure you have all the support you need. When she mentioned your preferences for studying and needing things to be perfect, she might have been expressing her concern about your well-being. It’s important to remember that we at Ask Alex are not medical professionals, so we cannot say which mental illness you might or might not have. However, what we can do is provide some guidance on how to navigate this situation.

 

One important step you can take is to try and communicate your feelings and anxieties with your mum. Let her know how you feel about what was discussed in the meeting and express any concerns you have. Sometimes parents might not realise how their actions make us feel, and having an open conversation can help clear up misunderstandings.

 

Your mum’s actions likely come from a place of care and concern for you. She might be noticing things that make her worry about your stress levels or mental health, and she wants to make sure you’re ok. It’s ok to feel a bit overwhelmed by this, but remember that seeking help is a positive step towards understanding and addressing any issues you might be facing.

 

If you feel that talking to your mum or someone else in your life isn’t enough, remember that you have the right to medical support if needed. Sometimes talking to a professional can provide clarity and help you feel more at ease with your situation. They can also offer strategies to help manage any stress or anxiety you might be experiencing.

 

Lastly, if you’re not ready to talk to someone you know just yet, you can always call the Childline Team. We’re open 24 hours a day, every day. You can contact us for free at 1800 66 66 66, or by Messenger at www.Childline.ie (just click on the purple chat icon). Our service is non-judgmental and confidential. You are never alone; we are here for you, to support you and explore your options with you.

 

Take care and don’t hesitate to reach out if you need more support.