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I want to give sponsership money to childline, how do i do this?
For a few years of my life i was sexually assaulted by a relative and recently that same person is trying to manipulate me into saying that it was my fault and that i wanted it even though i was way too young to even know what sex was! I feel like telling my family about this but I don't think it'll solve anything and will just make things complicated and if i tell the gardai about it i feel like theres no point because i wasnt raped and this was a long time ago and theres no proof. What should i do?
I have anxiety do you
Hi pat, my mam constantly screams at me and my sister and i’ve suffered depression from it and now my sister has tried to kill her self. what do i do?
how to make an animation?
Hi Pat,

I'm a pretty responsible kid and my parents trust me, but they wom't accept my sexuality I've tried coming out to them three times over the past year and a half but they keep saying I'm 'too young to know that sort of thing' and 'it's just a face' I really want to feel accepted at home but they won't support.
I'm wondering how to help them undrestand that I'm gay.
When I text talk to 50101 it doesn’t send I thought it was free
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How do i give sponsership money top Childline?
I want to give sponsership money to childline, how do i do this?
For a few years of my life i was sexually assaulted by a relative and recently that same person is trying to manipulate me into saying that it was my fault and that i wanted it even though i was way too young to even know what sex was! I feel like telling my family about this but I don't think it'll solve anything and will just make things complicated and if i tell the gardai about it i feel like theres no point because i wasnt raped and this was a long time ago and theres no proof. What should i do?
I have anxiety do you
Hi pat, my mam constantly screams at me and my sister and i’ve suffered depression from it and now my sister has tried to kill her self. what do i do?
how to make an animation?
Hi Pat,

I'm a pretty responsible kid and my parents trust me, but they wom't accept my sexuality I've tried coming out to them three times over the past year and a half but they keep saying I'm 'too young to know that sort of thing' and 'it's just a face' I really want to feel accepted at home but they won't support.
I'm wondering how to help them undrestand that I'm gay.
When I text talk to 50101 it doesn’t send I thought it was free
Dear Pat,
this summer a girl who was my best friend decided not to talk to me anymore. I made a new friend because of the and she told my new friend horrible things about me and they ditched me (this happened 3 times) I really don't know what to do and right now my only friends are outside of school.
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Hi Pat, i feel really down all the time, and im kind of the class clown, but i hate making people sad , so i always try to boost my fruends confidence by being silly , and im always there for them when there upset, but i dont get the same kind of responce back, and sometime i just get really hatefull things said to me, because im from dublin but live in cavan and they all hate the dubs because were always beating them. Its just childish, but sometime the things the say really hurt. Im not a baby , and i stand up for myself, but im just to tierd of trying to fit in with them, but when i try be myself, i get jugded, and something all i need is a compliment, but i try to be optimistic, but sometimes i cant