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Hi Pat, i feel really down all the time, and im kind of the class clown, but i hate making people sad , so i always try to boost my fruends confidence by being silly , and im always there for them when there upset, but i dont get the same kind of responce back, and sometime i just get really hatefull things said to me, because im from dublin but live in cavan and they all hate the dubs because were always beating them. Its just childish, but sometime the things the say really hurt. Im not a baby , and i stand up for myself, but im just to tierd of trying to fit in with them, but when i try be myself, i get jugded, and something all i need is a compliment, but i try to be optimistic, but sometimes i cant
My mum and dad are threatening to make me move to a school close to home if I don't get good results in my exams. I am very worried as my exams are this week and I find it very hard to study. I go to an Irish secondary school at the minute and I really love it but some people there aren't that nice to me. What should I do???
I am uncomfortable with my body because even though I am not fat, my stomach sticks way out. There are so many types of tops that I can't wear because of it. Please help.
A family member passed away in December and the principal wants me to talk to a counselor in the school I don’t like the counselor what should I do or say to my principal
I used to self harm and feel anxious all the time and sad but it kinda stopped for a while now I’ve gone back to self harming and feeling sad and anxious what should I do i really don’t want to go back to the way it was
Can u still be depressed without selfharming urself but still thinking about it of course
After starting recovery for anorexia and getting to a healthy weight. I now feel huge compared to underweight me.
Hi pat . I’m just wondering if you have to be a certain age to visit your doctor on your own. Or if they would have to contact your parents once you visit ? Thanks
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Hi Pat, i feel really down all the time, and im kind of the class clown, but i hate making people sad , so i always try to boost my fruends confidence by being silly , and im always there for them when there upset, but i dont get the same kind of responce back, and sometime i just get really hatefull things said to me, because im from dublin but live in cavan and they all hate the dubs because were always beating them. Its just childish, but sometime the things the say really hurt. Im not a baby , and i stand up for myself, but im just to tierd of trying to fit in with them, but when i try be myself, i get jugded, and something all i need is a compliment, but i try to be optimistic, but sometimes i cant
My mum and dad are threatening to make me move to a school close to home if I don't get good results in my exams. I am very worried as my exams are this week and I find it very hard to study. I go to an Irish secondary school at the minute and I really love it but some people there aren't that nice to me. What should I do???
I am uncomfortable with my body because even though I am not fat, my stomach sticks way out. There are so many types of tops that I can't wear because of it. Please help.
A family member passed away in December and the principal wants me to talk to a counselor in the school I don’t like the counselor what should I do or say to my principal
I used to self harm and feel anxious all the time and sad but it kinda stopped for a while now I’ve gone back to self harming and feeling sad and anxious what should I do i really don’t want to go back to the way it was
Can u still be depressed without selfharming urself but still thinking about it of course
After starting recovery for anorexia and getting to a healthy weight. I now feel huge compared to underweight me.
Hi pat . I’m just wondering if you have to be a certain age to visit your doctor on your own. Or if they would have to contact your parents once you visit ? Thanks
if your mother calls you names is that emotional abuse
I have lots of people living at home with me, 5 siblings and my parents, sometimes I just feel so lonely, even though there are all these people around, I don’t know why. What should I do?
Hi Pat

I’m not really sure how to say this…I guess I’m just really stressed. I am in junior cert and I hate exams. I just panic. We have just done our mocks and I guess they went ok. I am just really worried that I won’t do well and that I will just be a disappointment but I do try and study all the time. I just feel stressed about everything to do with these exams at the moment.

Please can you just give me some information!!!!

Thanks
Anna
Hi, my mum and dad are shouting lots at each other again. I don’t know what to do. I’m really scared. When I asked them to stop, my dad pushed my mum and she hit her head off the wall. What can I do?