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how do you know if you need inpatient hospital treatment for mental health issues
I’ve pushed all my friends away without meaning to and it makes me really upset. I feel like I’ve completely destroyed my life and I can’t fix it. It’s made me really suicidal and I don’t know how to fix it on my own
Are parents allowed to hit there 15 year old Son
What’s a good way to deal with the crippling anxiety and stress from PDD-NOS, a one way relationship, a failing Leaving Cert, divorcing parents and a family that doesn’t understand me all at once?
- Max
hi pat i was wondering what you should do if you feel presured to have sex i mean im 17 and im allowed to and i love my boyfriend and all but i dont want to have sex yet but i feel if i dont he will break up with me
I am an adult that needs help for my child.
I am going on holidays tomorrow but for the past few days my Mam has been shouting at me and not talking to me nicely
I tried to ignore it and spend time with my sister
But she not really helping
I went to my friends house overnight
When I got back she was even worse
She is saying that everything is my fault
She slapped me three times but I can't tell if it's because I am actually being rude or her but I'm not trying to argue
What do I do when the walls are caving in on me?
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how do you know if you need inpatient hospital treatment for mental health issues
I’ve pushed all my friends away without meaning to and it makes me really upset. I feel like I’ve completely destroyed my life and I can’t fix it. It’s made me really suicidal and I don’t know how to fix it on my own
Are parents allowed to hit there 15 year old Son
What’s a good way to deal with the crippling anxiety and stress from PDD-NOS, a one way relationship, a failing Leaving Cert, divorcing parents and a family that doesn’t understand me all at once?
- Max
hi pat i was wondering what you should do if you feel presured to have sex i mean im 17 and im allowed to and i love my boyfriend and all but i dont want to have sex yet but i feel if i dont he will break up with me
I am an adult that needs help for my child.
I am going on holidays tomorrow but for the past few days my Mam has been shouting at me and not talking to me nicely
I tried to ignore it and spend time with my sister
But she not really helping
I went to my friends house overnight
When I got back she was even worse
She is saying that everything is my fault
She slapped me three times but I can't tell if it's because I am actually being rude or her but I'm not trying to argue
What do I do when the walls are caving in on me?
What do I do if I become homeless at 16 and have no family
Why am I a piece of shit?
How can I feel better in myself and start looking forward to things?
ive been abused be my teacher and hurt me and maid me bleed