I had sex and got pregnant
Hi, if I had sex with a man when I was 16 and got pregnant and he is 23 is that abuse.
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Thank you so much for contacting us today. We understand it is not always easy to talk about how we are feeling.
You are asking if it is abuse if you had sex with a man when you were 16, got pregnant and he is 23. The legal age of consent in Ireland is 17 years old. This means you must be 17 or older to be able to consent to engage in sexual activities. However, it is a crime in Ireland for a person to engage in a sexual act with someone under 18 years old if they are or have previously been in a position of authority over them.
There’s more information around consent here: citizensinformation.ie
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