Alex's Answer

I don't know what these words mean

Your Question

When I’m at school why do the boys ask me if I masturbate or if I squirt and there’s a group who want to rub themselves over me I don’t even know what squirting masturbating is and I don’t know what rubbing themselves over me means my teachers have been notified and the boys are getting questioned about this and the school are helping and supporting me but like I don’t even know what they mean by these words


Hi there and welcome to Ask Alex.  

We would like to take this opportunity to thank you for reaching out and trusting us with what’s going on for you at the moment. 

You mentioned that when you are at school, the boys ask you if you masturbate or if you squirt and that there is a group that wants to rub themselves all over you. This sounds like a very difficult and stressful situation to be in, and you are very brave to share it with us. We are glad to hear that your teachers have been notified and the school are supporting you about this. It is only natural that you have questions about sexual activity.  

Is there someone you usually speak to, or place you go to, to get answers to questions that you have? Sometimes it might be someone close to us or it may be a book or a website. A website which you may find helpful is: They have lots of information on all the experiences young people go through as they grow up. You can find their articles on sex and relationships here: There are also some articles on the Childline website which you may like to look at: 

Remember, you can always phone Childline on 1800 66 66 66 to talk about what is going on for you if you don’t feel ready to talk to someone in your life quite yet. We are here 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Our web chat service through is also available 24/7. While we will not tell you what to do, we are here to listen to and support you, and to help you to explore the options that are available to you. We are here to help you in a way that suits you.   

Take care of yourself, we would like to hear from you soon.  


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