Alex's Answer

Hi there,

 

Thanks for reaching out! It’s really brave of you to ask for advice, and it shows that you’re thoughtful and caring. Finding a girlfriend can feel like a big deal, but it’s important to remember that being yourself is the best way to start. Focus on your interests and hobbies, and you’re likely to meet someone who shares those same passions.

 

Building a friendship first is a great way to start. Get to know the person you’re interested in by talking to them and spending time together. Ask about their interests and listen to what they have to say. Showing genuine interest in someone’s life is a wonderful way to build a connection.

 

Remember, it’s important to be respectful and considerate. Everyone moves at their own pace, and it’s crucial to be understanding of their feelings and boundaries. If things don’t work out the way you hoped, it’s ok. Relationships can take time to develop, and sometimes they happen when you least expect them. You may find this article helpful www.childline.ie/how-to-build-healthy-friendships-and-relationships/.

 

If you ever feel unsure or overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to talk to someone you trust. And if you’re not ready to talk to someone you know, you can always call the Childline Team. We’re open 24 hours a day, every day, and you can contact us for free at 1800 66 66 66 or by Messenger at www.Childline.ie (just click on the purple chat icon). Our service is non-judgmental and confidential. You are never alone; we are here for you to support you and explore your options with you.

 

Take care, and best of luck!

Alex