Alex's Answer

Hey there, thanks for reaching out to Ask ALex.

 

It sounds like you’re going through a tough time at school, and we want you to know that you’re not alone in feeling this way. It can be really hard when you feel like you don’t fit in or when others make you feel different. It’s ok to feel unmotivated in such situations, but know that there are things you can do to improve your experience.

 

Firstly, it’s important to remember that everyone is unique, and being quiet or introverted is perfectly ok. However, if you feel like you want to connect more with your peers, try starting small by initiating conversations with someone you feel comfortable with, or joining clubs or activities where you can meet people who share similar interests. This article may be helpful for you www.childline.ie/do-you-struggle-to-make-friends-here-are-a-few-things-that-might-help/.

 

Additionally, don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s ok to take your time finding your place and building relationships. Surround yourself with supportive friends or family members who appreciate you for who you are. Here is another article you might like to read www.childline.ie/stop-beating-yourself-up-why-we-all-need-more-self-compassion/.

 

Remember, change takes time, and it’s ok to look for support if you’re struggling. Childline Team is always here for you, offering a safe and confidential space to talk about your feelings and explore your options. You’re not alone in this journey, and there are people who care about you and want to help. Phone us for free on 1800 66 66 66 or chat to us through Messenger on Childline.ie 24/7, 365 days a year.

 

Take care of yourself, and know you do not have to face anything on your own,

Alex