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I think I got sexually assaulted a few times by a so called “friend” when I looked it up everything he did to me was exactly what they said was sexual assault. I talked to my school about it and they didn’t take me seriously and didn’t do anything and i think he will do it to an other girl
Hey Pat!
I know I’m gay but I’m too nervous to come out to my family. I’ve only told three of my friends so far and they have accepted me which is nice (And it turns out none of them are fully straight either.) but yet I’m still scared. I feel like I will be accepted cause my godfather is gay and no one has ever talked badly about him. I feel like I should come out to them and let them know, but another part of me wants to still keep it a secret.
Basically my question is, when do you think would be a good time to come out?
I get panic attacks and have OCD. My family give out to me a lot for getting stressed and upset at how unorganized or gross my brother is and when I’m at school, one boy says I don’t have OCD if my iPad isn’t facing straight forward, but I just have it at an angle so I can see it. I try to tell him there’s different types and levels of OCD, but he just puts all his stuff on my desk. Is there anything I can do about it? Thanks.
Hi pat. My friends have recently started to exclude me a lot by going out without me whispering when their around me and ignoring me I feel really left out and I don’t know why their leaving me out like i was best friends with them for 8 years and then
They suddenly start leaving me out. Thanks pat
have u ever been on a call with someone and they ended up killing themselves
my parents keep telling me that my sexuality is a choice and that i have control of it when obviously i do not !!! help me
My parents are not gonna pay for my university fees anymore and I’m 17 with no job or house
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I think I got sexually assaulted a few times by a so called “friend” when I looked it up everything he did to me was exactly what they said was sexual assault. I talked to my school about it and they didn’t take me seriously and didn’t do anything and i think he will do it to an other girl
Hey Pat!
I know I’m gay but I’m too nervous to come out to my family. I’ve only told three of my friends so far and they have accepted me which is nice (And it turns out none of them are fully straight either.) but yet I’m still scared. I feel like I will be accepted cause my godfather is gay and no one has ever talked badly about him. I feel like I should come out to them and let them know, but another part of me wants to still keep it a secret.
Basically my question is, when do you think would be a good time to come out?
I get panic attacks and have OCD. My family give out to me a lot for getting stressed and upset at how unorganized or gross my brother is and when I’m at school, one boy says I don’t have OCD if my iPad isn’t facing straight forward, but I just have it at an angle so I can see it. I try to tell him there’s different types and levels of OCD, but he just puts all his stuff on my desk. Is there anything I can do about it? Thanks.
Hi pat. My friends have recently started to exclude me a lot by going out without me whispering when their around me and ignoring me I feel really left out and I don’t know why their leaving me out like i was best friends with them for 8 years and then
They suddenly start leaving me out. Thanks pat
have u ever been on a call with someone and they ended up killing themselves
my parents keep telling me that my sexuality is a choice and that i have control of it when obviously i do not !!! help me
My parents are not gonna pay for my university fees anymore and I’m 17 with no job or house
what is 2 plus 5
what do you do if youy are being bullied
hi
i've been having really irrational fears and stresses over the past few months.
first i got scared of what people thought of my appearance, interests and stuff but then i got really scared that they [ by they i mean everyone around me, whether i know them or not ] were always looking at me and judging last week i started feeling that everyone could hear me think , which i know they can't , but because of that every time i'm around people [which is most of the time] i start just thinking
breath in one, two, three, four breath out one, two, three, four
it's really scaring me out because i know that people can't hear my thoughts but however much i try to stop it just gets worse.
it's been getting in the way of what i do in school and how hard i work because i can't think about the work, or when i have a conversation i spend the whole time just thinking they can't hear this, just speak, don't think
it's starting to scare me a lot
How do I make friends who are kind
I find it so hard to do anything anymore. I've given up. Right now I'm sitting in the bathroom at school because I don't want anyone to see me. I don't know what to do. Please help me