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Am I incapable of being loved

Your Question

I feel like no body loves or I am incapable of being loved and I sometimes makes me want to commit suicide what should I do but not all the time because sometimes I feel really happy but there is always that feel at the back of my mind that like no one loves you


Hi there, thanks for contacting Ask Alex. It’s good to hear from you. 

Sorry to hear that you’ve been feeling that nobody loves you. We often can experience a large range of emotions, sometimes even throughout one day so it’s not strange to feel happy and then also feel a bit low at times. It is natural to want to feel loved and you may be surprised to learn that more people in your life love and appreciate you than you might think. 

You are very brave to talk about your feelings here and we would be concerned to hear that you have thought about suicide. You deserve to feel safe and that includes from feeling this way. Please feel free to look at this article as it has a lot of important information:  

You’ve done a great thing getting in touch with us at Ask Alex. It shows that you care about yourself and want to feel better and to feel more loved. If you want to talk some more, always remember you can contact Childline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and chatting with us is free and confidential. You can talk to us by phone at 1800 66 66 66 or chat to us on our webchat at , just click on the Orange Live Chat tab on the side of the screen. It’s a safe place for you to discuss your thoughts and feelings, to feel accepted and to not be judged. 

Thanks for asking your question and take care of yourself,  


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